This post is great as it gives such varied responses based on location and experiences! @Julie Gates there re is a Code of Ethics for real estate agents and we must deal fairly and ethically, therefore if an agent is “fudging”, it is against the Code of Ethics. That doesn’t mean they don’t do it, however do know that it’s improper. It is important to know your market because the attitude of agents differs greatly depending on where one is located. I dubbed South Florida “The Wild West of Real Estate” because anything can happen. I’m so accustomed to ‘other offers’, etc that I don’t even flinch. Do your research and figure out what number works for you and don’t go beyond your max. As @Eric C. mentioned, there are factors other than price. I have a client closing soon and I went through a similar situation and I made it clear that my buyer is approved, has very high credit scores, full doc and WILL close (that’s not always the case in S.Florida). When they didn’t accept it, I let the other agent know where we stood. Several days later we shook hands. We’d done our research and knew exactly where we were willing to go. Find your number, ignore the noise and stick with it.
@Dave Passey - the notion that “the agent is there to protect the best interests of their client….” Is not necessarily accurate. For a single agent, yes. Not everyone is a single agent and in FL we are all transaction brokers unless we change designation. Thus our obligation is to the transaction. As a listing agent, does one work the number up? Sure. But the objective is to find a happy medium. Sadly, many transaction brokers forget that and end up hurting deals (I see it all the time). However, it’s not accurate to assume that’s what all agents do.
@Russell Brazil - You’re in my home area where there’s less BS in business, which bodes well for real estate. Down here there’s plenty of incentive to lie, despite it being unethical. People here aren’t afraid of multiple offers so some agents use that to their benefit. If buyers here used escalation clauses more often, they’d be able to call listing agents on it, however no one uses them (sadly).
@Mark Fries – You’re cutting off your nose to spite your face. Yes, you don’t need agents to succeed, however to stop working with all of them is merely cutting off another potential source of business. FL is full of less than impressive agents, however there are some excellent ones who do a great job.
@Jay Hinrichs - escalation clauses were big in the DC area 2003-2006, almost every transaction utilized them. Agents tended to list on Thursdays and selected on Sunday evening from the multitude of offers. It was difficult to win bids with such clauses, without them you were doomed. For some reason many areas don’t use them.
@Dan H. - solid advice! I’ve also felt that if someone is willing to overpay, let them. I (or my client) don’t have to win it. Coming back at $5k less is beast! Well done, sir.
@Dave Passey
@Russell Brazil
@Mark Fries