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All Forum Posts by: FR W.

FR W. has started 5 posts and replied 72 times.

Quote from @David Dachtera:

@Jonathan Greene,

Good points, though some deserve a bit more discussion.

#1 and #3 are probably the best, though #1 is often just being new to any forum, REI related or not. Perhaps a forum-specific "First Post" template pinned to the head of the forum topic list could help new folks see how to structure an appropriate first inquiry.

#2 just about defines a "newbie": someone with little or nothing to offer other than futures. I often see this interpreted as being asked to work for nothing. My response to that would be "no one gets a paycheck their first day on a new job, aside from a signing bonus", and those signing bonuses often have tenure requirements for the payout. Just to bolster one's own credibility, offer to accept a portion of the newbie's first deal profits as a show of good faith. While the relationship may ultimately prove untenable, that will be YOUR payment for the education toward becoming an effective mentor.

#4 and #5 really just show up shortfalls in the Bigger Pockets Forums.

#4 shows up the need for a more effective way to search the forums. BP's search function can be likened to Google in it's infancy. Yes, it searches, but there's no way to identify the "head" of thread where a question first appears. It also doesn't seem to recognize a quoted string versus the individual words in a search query. Perhaps an option to only search topic lines versus searching the entire forum database would prove helpful.

#5 is sort of the reverse of #4. There is no option link a question to multiple forums. I had the same issue with AOL decades ago - they called it spam, I called it covering all the bases. A single question could relevant to multiple forums, but attempting to engage the denizens of multiple forums is considered "spam" (it isn't). For example, in the left-hand column on this page, under "Financial, Tax and Legal" are forum topics which often overlap such as "Tax, SDIRAs and & Cost Segregation", "Goals, Business Plans and Entities" and "Personal Finance" could all be relevant to someone's question, but there's (currently) no way to engage the denizens of all those forums without posting in all of them (what you want to call "spamming").

My $0.02 ...


I like your two cents! Thanks for sharing :)

Whether asking a question as a new investor or answering as a seasoned investor, ALWAYS lead with kindness.  Being offended or taken aback by someone's rude response, is not a sign of "fragility," it says that you are one who would never respond so rudely to someone's simple question.  Stepping into these waters is already an intimidating process.  Please be mindful of the way you respond to questions from those who are not as seasoned as you might be.  Your response just might be the final straw in someone's attempt to change their life for the better by doing what others have successfully done before.  Lead with kindness.  Don't hide behind a rude response as a way of helping, because you're not.  What you're doing in that moment is ensuring that the person asking the question won't ask another... and that's not what we want.  We're here to help... not hurt or hinder. 

Thanks for the tips :)

Post: Looking for real estate investors.

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Quote from @Mikeala Weaver:

Hello all! 

I'm still new to the real estate market. I'm seeking real estate investors to work with in my area. 

I'm FINALLY ready to jump in and make a change in not only my life but also my family. Real estate to me is not just about the money. It's about investing in your future, the future of your family, creating financial freedom, peace, security, stability. I'm nervous to start because it's all new to me however I know I can do it. It's always been in me since I was younger. I've always had a business mindset. 

I look forward to meeting and working with you all!

Thank you. 


 Welcome, Mikeala!

Post: Looking for real estate investors.

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Quote from @Hamp Lee III:

Another great way to get started is visiting local real estate investing meetups. You might find some using the Events section in the Learn menu or even on Facebook.

There are many different “avenues” to take in real estate investing. The key will be finding the one you want to go with and learning all you can about it.

Start small, but be ready to take action.

Though I’m not in your market, if you have questions, please feel free to message me.

I wish you all the best.

Hi, Hamp! Very kind of you to offer to assist this young lady. #KeepLiftingOthers

Post: New guy here. Looking to grow

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Quote from @Timothy Davis:

Hello world, 

New to this endeavor. Looking forward getting started. 

Welcome, Timothy!
Quote from @Renee D Wallace:

Hello everyone, 

I am new to this site and happy to have found it through a colleague!

Welcome, Renee :)
The desire to continually want to learn all that you can, but not staying stuck in the learning - on the job training is awesome.  Learn enough and then go out and do a deal.  I once heard a wise person say, "You don't have to know every step right away, just the next step."  

Best of luck!
Quote from @Cody L.:
Quote from @FR W.:

@Cody L. Hi, Cody!  C'mon, that was a very polite response but remember that you were once just starting out and you were probably hoping that someone would give you a leg up, as you seem to be in the position to do now for others.  People who are just starting out need that help... so, why not be the one to step up and provide it if you can?  Thanks!


 I'm not sure what you mean.  I help people all the time here.  I just didn't want to share a link to my company's list of STRs as it could be viewed as 'advertising' and I don't use the site to advertise and don't want to be accused of that.

But I've sent it via PM.

I couldn't PM the person that asked as their account had been closed.

Unless you're talking about something else? 


Hi, Cody L...  this was the comment I was referring to:  
I know everyone has to start somewhere but we are trying not to go with
people that are just starting out. We're looking for partners that are
well capitalized and can take on large chunks of units. Leasing one unit
to someone for STR we might as well just lease it to a traditional tenant.

Again, the point that I was making was that everyone who might be in a position similar to yours was "just" starting out at one time or another and if you're in the position to help someone who is now in the position you once were in, why not go for it and help, instead of sharing all the reasons why you would prefer to lease to someone with more experience or who has more money or that you'd just prefer to lease it to a traditional tenant instead of "helping" the person who is just starting it?  That was what I was referring to. 

Have an amazing weekend, Cody L!

@Cody L. Hi, Cody!  C'mon, that was a very polite response but remember that you were once just starting out and you were probably hoping that someone would give you a leg up, as you seem to be in the position to do now for others.  People who are just starting out need that help... so, why not be the one to step up and provide it if you can?  Thanks!

@Wendy Patton Hi, Wendy! I clicked that link you shared for the download, but when I entered my email and hit the button, nothing happened.  Thoughts?