Quote from @Mohammed Rahman:
Hey @Ryan Ness - that is life, it has its ups and downs. I'm only a few years ahead of you and can relate to what you've mentioned.
You may not like to hear this, but nothing comes super fast or easy. The opinion I have is whether you've figured out what your actual long term goals are, and it's ok if you haven't, you're 22.
I only say that because when I was in a similar position, I couldn't devote my time to everything I wanted to do, and realized that only when I started cutting things out I could really go deep into what was for me. I quit my job and got my real estate license because I knew I wanted to be in real estate long term as an investor and real estate player. Doing it full time has led me to connect with other moves & shakers that I wouldn't have been able to had I still had a fulltime job and invested on the side.
I'm not saying this is what you have to do, but it will help you to get some more clarity about your long term goals and work backwards from there. I've yet to meet someone with a W2 that also has a real estate empire. Nothing wrong with a good job and salary, but it just took time away from what really excited me :)
This is far too true and hits all of the nails right on the head. I told myself that I would pursue Real Estate full-time once I got this house hack rented out, but I found that it was actually better to continue my full-time work and sell RE on the side for added income. This worked out better than I thought it would since the added income has helped bring me to the point of having to worry a LOT less about potential repairs for the home. I have all major repairs that are upcoming covered, and steady rent coming in each month.
I definitely have viewed the potential on the other side such as jumping into RE full time and how it has led you "to connect with other moves & shakers that I wouldn't have been able to had I still had a fulltime job and invested on the side". This has been the voice in my head that always tells me that I am potentially missing out on a deal that I could have had, had I connected with a person, but in reality, I may actually have more time than I think I do...procrastination is not good. I have been looking on the MLS and in my current market, the opportunities I am seeing just don't pencil out just yet, but if I learned anything from this first deal, patience is key for sure. It took 2 years to get my first, but if it takes another 2, and I get the same cashflow opportunity, it will be well worth it!
To your last paragraph: I always play the mental game of whether burning the ships is what will set the fire in motion. While I don't have many years of experience in jobs (maybe 7 at this point, and all entry-level), I honestly do not know how I respond to burning the ships and have always thought it would be a fun experiment.