I still need a vacation every 3 to 6 months and exercise multiple times a week to clear the mind.Even if you love what you do if you burn candles at both ends you will flame out.

Either way is fine, just let us know which one so we don't waste our time trying to help you...and then get flamed for doing so.

They resisted diversifying their economies, repurposing their manufacturing facilities, closing dangerous mines, and they thought that if they just waited long enough, something would change. 20 years ago, the rust belt was dead, and some of those towns kept on waiting, and are still waiting.

Ok, let's try Miami FL....Denver ColoradoTravis I am trying, I am TRYING man to find ANY city/market in the US anywhere close to as saturated with available unit inventory as Detroit but every-dang-time it come sup Detroit a FLAMING hot-mess vs anywhere else I look.     

This generally involves weight/resistance training, which I've found to be the best all around exercise routine.

End shameless plug.But hey, I'm still campaigning to be the first 4-peater, so I couldn't resist.  

I didn't want someone realizing I lived there and key my truck or leave flaming bags at the door.

Carpet is cheaper for sure, but tenants these days resist carpet for whatever reason.

Try to resist that temptation, because once you live alone you'll never want roommates again.

ANYTHING helps.Thank you for taking time to look over my post,D'AndreD'Andre, honestly, you have to try to tap into your wife-to-be mindset and her resistance to an idea she knows nothing about 🤯The best way to prove that REI works to a spouse is to SHOW THEM.