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All Forum Posts by: Alexandra Hughes Pailet

Alexandra Hughes Pailet has started 11 posts and replied 298 times.

Post: BPCON 2025 Ticket Transfer - how does it work

Alexandra Hughes Pailet
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  • 🎉 Director of Events at BiggerPockets
  • Denver, CO
  • Posts 355
  • Votes 334

Hi! You both can email me together and I'll handle it for you! 

[email protected]

Post: The Downfall of BiggerPockets Forums?

Alexandra Hughes Pailet
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  • 🎉 Director of Events at BiggerPockets
  • Denver, CO
  • Posts 355
  • Votes 334
Quote from @Jonathan Greene:

There is no way to fix it. This has been a runaway train for years.

I was on a call with many of the hosts and the new CEO and his team. The new CEO has barely invested in real estate. This is a tech company, it's not a real estate investing portal anymore. He was saying that their goal was to use AI to create more connectivity. What?

AI is what is dragging this site down every day.

If they wanted more connectivity, BP would partner with local meetups in every city to co-sponsor the IN-PERSON meetups and help make it more collaborative.

None of us needs to be sitting on the computer in forums anymore. We need to talk to people in real life. New investors need to connect with people who are making deals in their market.

Thanks for dragging me back to the forums to spew @Remington Lyman.

Siri, is this appropriate enough for the site?

You know I'm here for the IRL events @Jonathan Greene 🥳 Nothing beats those in-person connections! I'll miss you at BPCON this year, but I'd love to hear more about your regional event ideas as we plan for the future. 

Post: Hello and excited to get started

Alexandra Hughes Pailet
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  • 🎉 Director of Events at BiggerPockets
  • Denver, CO
  • Posts 355
  • Votes 334
Quote from @Julia Harmon:

Hi BiggerPockets community,

I've been listening to the Real Estate Rookie podcast of the last few weeks and decided that it's time to get started on this REI journey! I'm a W2 employee working in tech for many years and ready to plan my future of escaping the 9-5 grind and being in control of my own destiny. I'm willing to work hard at this and have realist expectations.

I'm not completely green. My husband and I bought our 1st home in San Diego in 2015, fixed it up while living in it and growing our family, then sold 2 years later and bought another true fixer upper that we've been living in for the last 7 years. We've done a mix of DIY and contractors (when it was beyond our expertise) for both houses. We've stayed in this house because life has been busy and because we love this location and our community. Plus, the property taxes here are insane and if we sold and bought new in this area our taxes would increase drastically.

My idea as a next step is to 1) Purchase a STR property in CA in 3-6mo (almost ready w the deposit, talking to lenders and agents); 2) Build an ADU on our current property and do a LTR. Since we already own the land and rents are high I think this is a good plan. 3) Expand into more rentals (thinking buy and hold) and build a portfolio.

I've always been interested in real estate and design. I'm addicted to Redfin and Zillow and constantly doing real estate math as I drive around neighborhoods and see fixer uppers. I'm not adverse to risk and currently have a decent size paycheck. I want to be out of the corp world and focused only on REI within the next 7 years. I think I'm more interested in BRRRR as I'm not ready for the risk / cost of flipping yet. (Although, I think I'd be good at it.) I'm ok with net zero cash for a few years while building equity but need a strategy to get me to an investor only life that is close to or more than my current W2. I'd love to invest in my own community of San Diego, but it's so expensive that I'm starting to think I need to do long distance investing to build a portfolio faster.

I'm planning to attend BPCon to start building my network and absorb all the info I possibly can. If anyone has suggestions, wants to connect or lives in San Diego and wants to meet up, I'm open to it all.

Thanks for reading and excited to join this community!

-Julia


 Hey Julia! If you haven't already, I recommend creating a meetup or discussion in the Whova app so you can meet other San Diego-area attendees! 

Post: FOR PROS ONLY- Using AI to win deals

Alexandra Hughes Pailet
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  • 🎉 Director of Events at BiggerPockets
  • Denver, CO
  • Posts 355
  • Votes 334
Quote from @Richard Helppie-Schmieder:
Quote from @Alexandra Hughes Pailet:

Can't wait to see you at BPCON! 

We're also working on putting together an AI-based session for BPCON attendees!


 Hi Alex, any update on an AI session at BPcon yet?

Take care,

Rich


There is one posted on Monday afternoon and another one that is coming soon! 

Post: FOR PROS ONLY- Using AI to win deals

Alexandra Hughes Pailet
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  • 🎉 Director of Events at BiggerPockets
  • Denver, CO
  • Posts 355
  • Votes 334

Can't wait to see you at BPCON! 

We're also working on putting together an AI-based session for BPCON attendees!

Post: Why I Stopped Talking About My Goals with Friends and Family

Alexandra Hughes Pailet
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  • 🎉 Director of Events at BiggerPockets
  • Denver, CO
  • Posts 355
  • Votes 334

@Seth McGathey I feel this in my bones! I turned all of my frustration from people doubting me into determination to get it done, whatever it took. I was only 25, single, and living in an expensive market and I'm not sure if I would've ever taken the plunge had I not been so pissed off people weren't encouraging me to do it.  A silver lining of their doubt! 

Post: Why I Stopped Talking About My Goals with Friends and Family

Alexandra Hughes Pailet
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  • 🎉 Director of Events at BiggerPockets
  • Denver, CO
  • Posts 355
  • Votes 334
Quote from @William Miller:

Lately, I’ve realized that not everyone deserves a front row seat to my goals.

Most of my friends and family are good people but they don’t share the same vision or mindset when it comes to building wealth, real estate investing, or taking risks for long-term freedom. And that’s okay. But what I’ve learned the hard way is that sharing my plans with the wrong people can kill momentum before I even start.

You’ll hear things like:

  • “That sounds risky.”
  • “Real estate is too expensive right now.”
  • “Why not just stick to your job and play it safe?”
  • “My cousin’s uncle tried that and lost everything.”

Most of them mean well. But the truth is, most people want to give advice they’ve never earned. They've never done a BRRRR, never managed a rental, never dealt with banks or built anything from scratch but they have an opinion ready to go.

So I’ve been learning to keep my head down, stay focused, and connect with people who are actually in the game. People who’ve done what I’m trying to do. People who can offer real feedback instead of fear.

If you’ve ever felt the same like you’re moving in a different direction than those around you just know you’re not alone. I’m here to network, stay accountable, and build something real with people who get it.

Let’s connect. I’m always down to trade knowledge, share deals, or just keep each other locked in.

– Will


Hey Will! I think many share your sentiment on BiggerPockets. If you'd like to connect in-person with like-minded investors who are doing deals today, we'd love to have you at our 6th annual BiggerPockets Conference! Here is all the info - biggerpockets.com/conference

You can email me with questions and for a little incentive to help get you to Vegas with us! [email protected]

Post: Thinking about going to BPCON 2025 - Any promo codes?

Alexandra Hughes Pailet
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  • 🎉 Director of Events at BiggerPockets
  • Denver, CO
  • Posts 355
  • Votes 334
Quote from @Christopher LeBlanc:

Hi Alexandra.  I'm also planning on attending this year.  I've just booked my hotel, and was just decided to see if there were any discounts.  May I send an email as well?


 Hello! Yes, send me an email and we can chat :) 

Post: 84% of Americans Think It's A Bad Time To Buy A House

Alexandra Hughes Pailet
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  • 🎉 Director of Events at BiggerPockets
  • Denver, CO
  • Posts 355
  • Votes 334
Quote from @Engelo Rumora:
Quote from @Jay Hinrichs:
Quote from @Engelo Rumora:
Quote from @Jay Hinrichs:
Quote from @Joe Villeneuve:
Quote from @Jay Hinrichs:
Quote from @Joe Villeneuve:
Quote from @Jay Hinrichs:
Quote from @Joe Villeneuve:

Where did you get this "84%" number from?


I personally do not believe this ..  Or maybe folks think it but sales are not down 84% :)

I'm right there with you, that's why I asked where he got that number from.  Here in Plymouth (MI), if a house goes up for sale, it's gone like lightning.  We're still doing demo old small houses and building bigger newer period ones.  These are gone before they are finished.


Love infill like that we have one going in Charleston SC right now.. I did about 30 of them there but could not find any lots last 18 months until one popped up last fall.. Cant tear down houses in Charleston very easy.. I will have to check Plymouth out I am looking for a new infill market.
Let me know if you have any questions on it.

I do pop me a pm or e mail..  I need to make a trip to Toledo to check on all my deals I am funding there so I could kill two birds as it were and I would fly into Detroit anywayn

 Dinner?


YUP if your coming to vegas for BP con ???

Maybe I show up to BP con but if you make it to Toledo, let me know please

Long overdue a catch up mate 🙏


 We'd love to see you there! Email me for a little incentive since you're a long-time community member! [email protected]

Post: For Sale By Owner success tactics

Alexandra Hughes Pailet
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  • 🎉 Director of Events at BiggerPockets
  • Denver, CO
  • Posts 355
  • Votes 334
Quote from @Caryn Pollock:

Thank you for the info.  New to BP.  Didn't know about the search option.  Love that.


 Hey Caryn! Since you're new to BP, I highly recommend checking out our annual conference which takes place this year October 5-7 in Las Vegas. Learn more here! BiggerPockets.com/conference 

Since you're new to BP, please email me and I'd love to extend a discount for you. [email protected] 

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