I have been around some very successful people. Im talking people with 100m plus networths... One thing I have encountered first hand and also see on biggerpockets and other meetups is the lack of giving. Let me clarify...
The most successful people in the world COLLABORATE and look for ways to grow TOGETHER. Ever heard of the saying "Your network is your networth?". I mean isn't this the point in sites like this? The super wealthy doesn't where they are without others helping them and without others also getting wealthy. What I see too much is people that want to take take take and never give. Far too often individuals will brush someone off because they can't be of immediate help in some way. Or they take advantage of someone helping them out and doing them a favor to only ghost them after or never repay that favor.
I am who I am. If anyone ever needs help or advice in any way I give. I do not expect anything in return from the society we live in these days. I am a servant type of person. I believe the more you give the more you receive. However I have seen too many times how selfish and arrogant people can be going through life taking advantage of everyone they come into contact with. Thinking they are superior or want to try to keep 100% of the pie for themselves. I am telling you right now that is not the mindset of the ultra elite. Everyone around them rise as well. Why do you think Dubai is such a sought out place for the wealthy right now? They all collaborate and make money together there... There isn't selfishness or people out to "get you" or take advantage of you. It's just a bunch of likeminded people that want to all get rich together.
Moral of the story? Give people the time of day. Quit taking and being leaches to people. Start giving. You will grow 10X quicker with partners and collaborations than you ever will by yourself.
Not the most professional put together post but these are raw thoughts coming from someone with a decent amount of experience in both start ups/the business world, as well as the real estate world. I have gave so much in this industry to rarely ever get anything in return. And that's okay. But I see someone make a post for advice or help and hardly anyone will actually help or reply or collaborate. I've seen posts saying I have X amount of money and ready to buy and suddenly the inboxes get flooded by leaches... I've personally done this before HA!
There's a quote that recently went viral from an engineering student saying "If I want an answer to a super hard engineering question I post the wrong answer on reddit. People don't care about helping but they are quick to tell you that you are wrong and correct you.". That quote couldn't be more true. Its sadly the culture that has been bred here in the US. Don't be that person. You will get much further in both life and In real estate by building connections and helping eachother instead of being selfish. Anyways, rant over. Off topic but needs to be said. Especially with the posts I've seen in here lately. Provide value.