Originally posted by @Mashika Johnson:
@Will Barnard
And like I stated in my original post if you pros did a better job of educating people of how to actually do it correctly by using the forums or creating a well rounded blog post then it would help the fellow newbie such as myself.
Please tell me that you are NOT saying that those who have worked hard and succeeded somehow owe you a free education?
Don't get me wrong, I am for you in spirit, but I do have a problem with the way you are approaching your situation. In your very first post on this thread, you stated that you had read so many negative forum posts and blogs on this site. Do you understand that you yourself have started and are responsible for yet another incredibly long, frustrating wholesaler bashing thread? Like or not, that's what this is....and was destined to become.
From your first post: "I'm also disappointed in the fact that REAL SUCCESSFUL wholesalers won't stand up and give their piece to cut out all the extra crap."
I know you read @Will Barnard's post....one of the longest on this site. Maybe you noticed that in the first three pages or so, it was ME as a newbie in YOUR shoes all those years ago saying the same things you are with some of the same attitude and grit. But I thank God (literally) that Will started that thread and cared enough to befriend and educate me. Do you not see? Will is a successful wholesaler and he's laid it out for you. @Jay Hinrichs is a successful wholesaler and told you how it is. You can like it or not like it but it doesn't change how it is.
I cannot tell you how many times I've "stood up" in threads like this and tried to shout down the moronic wholesale hatred of the uninformed (which by the way does NOT include Will or Jay. Discernment is a pretty important skill to develop, especially on a public forum). But what I learned was that it was a WASTE OF MY TIME. You have to fight the fights you can win. (I cringe even as I type this knowing that I'm not going to change anyone's mind, not even yours, and this will be 15 or 20 minutes I will never get back)
So while all that wholesale hate was going on, I pretty much just quit posting and went out and made money instead. No amount of success stories, no number of impossible situations that Agents are not equipped to handle, no logical attack on flawed equity stripping logic or questioning if I was "ethically" obligated to offer top dollar (I'm not, you're not, heck, they don't even do it in retail) could slake the hate or turn the tide of an entrenched culture. Fortunately, that was not necessary for my own and many others success.
10 years later and I've done hundreds of wholesales. When I had enough money, I listened to @Michael Quarles and started wholetailing. Then I began flipping, then started buying a few to hold. Now I do all of the above depending on the situation. Looking back, there's only one thing I would have done differently.....I would have gotten a license. Not because I needed it, obviously, but because it would have made everything a lot easier and cut the time it took to "arrive" in half.
So as someone who's been there and done that (exactly what you're looking to do), bought and sold the t-shirt, and lived very comfortably for a decade from my RE earnings, I can tell you this....everything you need is right here on this site. If you listen. If you stay open minded. But most importantly if you take responsible action.
.......... "Everyone claims to want to help the fellow wholesalers but I really don't see a lot of that going on. Just a lot of opinionated warnings that aren't backed up with anything concrete"....."So do your due diligence as a pro and provide me with concrete facts that will help me make a solid decision to do wholesaling or not, rather then have me confused about the whole concept all together"....
Oh, and this is rich: "Do you really want to be responsible for killing our dreams without providing any real alternative?" Really!? That right there is enough to make even the most kind hearted change the channel and shut the door on you. Your dreams are yours including whether or not it dies and / or has alternatives.
Who is "everyone"? Could you direct that please? It is no one's "due diligence" or obligation to educate you. Please acknowledge that you understand that. It is NO ONE'S responsibility to give you their time and teach you for free the things they spent their own time, energy and resources to learn. We all paid our dues. It's your turn now. Fortunately, you do not have to reinvent the wheel
Here these guys are taking their time to point you in the right direction. They did not have to do that. It sounds like you discount their pearls of wisdom because it isn't what you want to hear and are demanding they tell you something else you can use. That's embarrassing because that is exactly what (in part) gives wholesaling newbs a black eye and tarnished reputation....the notion that they are owed something for nothing.
There are gobs of helpful posts on this site concerning wholesaling. Every question has been asked and answered to death over and over. That's where discernment comes in. You have to chew the meat and spit out the bones. My friend, mentor and wholesale Hero was @Ryan Webber (rest in peace my friend). He passed some years ago but his collected posts are still relevant and an absolute gold mine. He was the absolute CHAMPION of wholesalers on this site, but also always told it like it is. He would be the very first one to back this attitude of yours up right back there on page one.
Again....I'm on on your team, ....team wholesale. You can do this if you really want to. But wholesale hate will likely never die on this site. The best we can do is try not to facilitate it through threads like this with inflammatory titles and challenges. People in the future will look at and point to your posts and say "this....this is why newbie wholesalers are so annoying".
Just sayin' I hope you'll take it easier on me than I did on you. I haven't posted in a very long time, but your post moved me.